Saturday, December 27, 2025

The Babes, Another Story Missed

Once again I find myself not listening to a family member read a pair of newspaper articles my grandfather had clipped about Christmas due to COVID, this time because I'm isolating having had a very recent exposure (and being super tired so joining a zoom isn't in the cards). 

If you don't know this about me, I'm agnostic bordering on atheist, but my grandfather was a Methodist minister.  He grappled with ethics and lessons of good and evil both in his role as a religious leader as well as in his job at BU as a professor who taught society and ethics.  A few years ago, near the start of the ongoing pandemic, I shared the essence of one of the articles that he would read to my family throughout my childhood and someone in my family has read at the annual gathering each year since his passing.  I'd like to share the other and how I have long questioned the wisdom but how I now firmly don't believe it and why.

The article is from WWII and is about the author having recently read something about a conqueror sweeping through Europe.  The author was surprised to find that the conqueror was not the current threat but instead Napoleon.  He then goes on to explain that the "sign onto you" that God sends the shephards is not something fantastical but something every-day: a babe born in a manger, the most mundane of mundane occurences.  He continues but the general idea of the rest is that as long as there are babies being born, it's a sign from God that He still believes in us and that there is always hope.

So here's the thing: it's a wonderful idea... and after a fashion it's sort of true... but it's also blinding.  The point of the article is roughly that things don't change in a way that is not reversable and, more generally, that things that threaten us today may seem bad, but they will not be our end.  But none of that is true.  Things change irreparably.  After WWII, we will never return to a world without the threat of nuclear annihilation.  And the more we take for granted that things will continue the way they always have, the less we are able to adapt to growing threats. 

For example, climate change has been a pressing concern for several decades now.  I was well aware of what was coming back in the 1980's already as a young kid.  But if we assume the sea levels can't possible rise substantially, that our coastlines and weather patterns are relatively static, then we won't do things to try to avoid that future AND won't do anything to protect ourselves.  The longer we are blind to the situation we are in, the harder it will be to do anything meaninful.

Another good example is COVID-19 (and pandemics in general).  Yes, there are scientists researching pandemics generally, and even COVID-19 in specific, but we, as a society, do not appear willing to accept where we find ourselves.  COVID-19 has been, and continues to be, a mass disabling event.  Many don't know that, many that do don't seem willing to do much about it.  We ignore the risks.  Collectively, we have decided that we should return to how we lived prior to the start of the pandemic in most ways.  And it's true that we have made some good strides toward coping with the initial illness (vaccines, paxlovid) but we do not currently have any treatment for any form of long covid, nor do we have a firm understanding of its different forms, just knowing the symptoms/impacts we have seen.  And even the full list of symptoms/impacts are continuing to evolve.  But we turn a blind eye to it and say that clean air, masking, and other precautions are too much.  Like climate change, we struggle a lot with covid because of lagging indicators and somewhat invisible impacts.  I could go on for days, but suffice to say, we have shown that we cannot handle delayed impacts (including multi-day incubation periods) and appreciating invisible connections (like the damaged covid causes to all organs and systems).  And like climate change, we have not risen to the challenge that we face and therefore are continuing to cause undo harm to so many and ostracizing those who take reasonable precautions.

Ok, one more example: the current politcal climate in the US.  In November 2024, we elected Trump to be President.  We knew about Project 2025 which was a playbook for a lot of things, but among them, how to generally wreak havoc in government and get away with it.  That playbook drew on fascist principles and strategies.  Historians were warning from the early days about what to look for and everything they warned us about came to pass.  Courts have provided precious little in the form of pushback, but at least they provided some, where it has been entirely lacking from Congress.  The expectation from many is that when Trump leaves office, we'll return to the status quo.  The expectation is that what happens elsewhere (transitioning away from a democracy) can't happen here.  The reality is something different.  The reality is that there is every reason to believe that we either worn't have a 2026 presidential election or that it won't be what we expect it to be.  Even if we have such an election, there is every reason to believe that the playbook of the right will be adhered to with even greater competency than it has been in 2025 and that a greater ill will arrive to the US.

I don't have answers.  I don't know that anything can be done.  And that's the point.  What I do know is that it's possible for things to change for the worse and for it to not be recoverable, at least for humankind.  I know the world changes.  I know that our circumstances change if we feel like things will always be the same, we will not adapt sufficiently (level of response or speed of response or, even more likely given the above 3 current examples, both).

So, it is a lovely sentiment that as long as there are babes, there is hope and there is evidence of God's love, but that line of thinking is somewhat folly.  It can easily land you in complacency and the belief that "this crisis shall end and we will inevitably be fine." which is simply not the case. 

The first article still rings true.  It is about how the story of Christmas is about more than just good feelings but about struggle and there being real evil in the world.  My post about that can be found here: Who Took Herod Out of Christmas

Sunday, November 17, 2024

More 2024 Election Thoughts

There are a number of factors that went into the Democrats losing in 2024.  Below are just my very amateur thoughts:

1) Racism: I mean... there was a whole movement born out of Obama being elected.  Racism has been, for as long as I can remember, a dog whistle the Republican party would blow in every Presidential election but with Trump, that was now more open and obvious to the point of it being basically a bullhorn.  

2) Sexism: We just have to look back 8 years to see the impact of sexism in our Presidential races.  While Clinton wasn't a great candidate, if the same policy/behaviors had been from a male democrat, I think things might have been different... or that politician would have been a republican.  

Quick side note: It's also telling that we've only had 2 women Presidential candidates and 2 non-white Presidential candidates who have run in the general (and one of each wasn't there due to primary results).

3) Short memory span: nobody remembers how bad Trump was and certainly they don't remember how awful he was with covid... or they are in his base and think he did fine somehow.  

4) "It can't possibly be that bad therefore it's not and won't be": this is the same intellectual dysfunction that people have with all sorts of things, including covid and climate change.  It can't be that a white supremacist would be the nominee.  It can't be that a basic mob boss is the nominee of a party for the Presidency.  It can't be that he's being that openly dumb.  Therefore, it's not.  Also, Project 2025 is a nightmare scenario, so it can't be that they actually want to implement it.

5) Back and forth between the parties to resolve things: generally if the world is seen as being bad, it doesn't matter whose policies are actually better for the situation, one side had 4 years, give the other side a chance (even if the one side didn't actually have power during that time because they didn't have Congress).  I had a colleague who felt this way prior to Trump.  He and I are no longer talking so I don't know if he would still feel this way... but I can easily see this being a rational in combination with the third and fourth for many to decide that it was time to vote for a Republican.

6) It's the economy stupid.... but the economy is not an easy topic.  People know that things are more expensive now than they were.  Whatever the reason for that increased expense, they blame the current administration (a not uncommon scenario) and Harris was tainted by being in that administration.  

7) A general shift toward caring less about others.  In the spring of 2020, there was a general push to see everyone as part of the same community.  Republicans generally pushed against being concerned about the public's health.  As time went by, that push against taking precautions for the general public's safety became more and more accepted by the broader population.  By spring 2021, the "we're in this together" messaging from Democrats and media had been switched to "protect yourself for your own sake and don't worry about others."  A natural extension of this is that men shouldn't worry about women, whites don't have to worry about non-whites, straight people don't have to ... you get the picture.  And even if you were a member of a targeted population, as long as you're not overly concerned or think that you won't be more targeted than otherwise, well, then it's not like this election is actually that great a concern.

8) "Vote for me because my opponent is awful" worked in 2020 because we were in the thick of Trump-Terror... but it's a poor motivational message, especially when you combine with element 4 above.

Saturday, November 16, 2024

First They Came For The Vulnerable (Post Election Anger and Pain)


First they came for the vulnerable...
and you said f' them, yolo, and promoted not caring about others for 3.5 years.
and then, well, here we are.... did you think promoting a society where we didn't care about those perceived as vulnerable would lead somewhere else?
Do you care yet? Still only about select groups?
#ItsSoMuchWorseThanYouThink #ItDidntHaveToBeThisWay #NotEveryoneSurvived #NotEveryoneWillSurvive #IDontKnowHowToMakeYouCare #DoYouGetItNow 


Friday, August 4, 2023

Say Something (Parody of "Say Something" by A Great Big World as covered by Pentatonix)

(specifically this cover of the song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dYlvdLdK9w)

Say something, I'm giving up on you
I'll walk away, if you want me to
Anything I would've done for you
Say something I'm giving up on you

And I, am isolating
it's been three full years now
and yet just beginning
and I, am still trying to sing
I'm still fighting my way
but does it mean anything

Say something, I'm giving up on you
I'm sorry but I may need just a few
Anything, I would've done for you
Say something, I'm giving up on you

And I will swallow my pride
For sake of the show
Need I say goodbye

Say something, I'm giving up on you
(say something, say something, say something)
I'll walk away, if you need me to
(Say something, Say something, I'll)

Say something, I'm giving up on you
I'll walk away, if you want me to
Say something, I'm giving up on you
I'll walk away, if you need me to

Say, say something, I'm giving up on you
I'll walk away, just need ask me to 
Say something, I'm giving up on you
(Say something, I'm giving up)
I'll walk away, if you want me to
(if you want me to, oh if you want me to)
Anything, I would have done for you
Say something (say something), say something (say something), say something (say something), I'll
Say something, I'm giving up on you

I'm Tired

I'm tired...

I'm tired of hearing that we don't need masks because COVID is over (it's not)

I'm tired of hearing that COVID is now just like getting the flu (yes, people have been saying this since spring of 2020... who is saying it has changed but the fact that it's not hasn't changed significantly... there are things we can do now for some people but not for everybody ... including those of us who are fully vaccinated and on medication that prevents us from taking PAXLOVID ... and not for every outcome... such as so many of the Long Covid issues, including organ damage, brain fog, chronic fatigue syndrome-like symptoms)

I'm tired of hearing that masks are a significant burden (seriously? If I can wear one and put up with you being an ignorant jerk, you can wear one and put up with my caring about your health)

I'm tired of people not at all understanding precautions... yes, you can have a picnic in the field where we're performing... we're just asking that if you're going to be near us (ie, in a crowd watching the performance) that you mask.

I'm tired of people mistaking not testing for there's less spread (newsflash, even if you don't get x-rayed, if I break your arm, your arm is still broken)

I'm tired of hearing "but if this is just the conditions we have to live in going forward, are we expected to always take these precautions?" (yes... oh and by the way global climate change means we should shift the way we generate energy and deal with transportation and change our infrastructure... and 9/11 happened so we have security theater at airports... and the American Revolution happened so we don't send taxes to the UK... and we wear things on our feet when we enter businesses... and we have requirements for our cars that need testing every year to continue driving them... facts on the ground change, we learn new information, we adapt)

I'm tired of fighting for the privilege to provide my services for free in a way that I will be safe. (nothing says "thank you" like telling me I'm not worthy of, you know, existing)

I'm tired of knowing that nothing I say will change the minds of those that care about me (or those that say they do) and help them understand that it's still dangerous, not only to me but to them too (and yeah, I know this post won't change your mind. it's not for you, it's for me).

I'm tired of understanding that this is indeed the rest of my life... none of this will change, the spread will continue to stay at high levels with waves but where the valleys will never get to low spread, I will never go to a movie again (benefit/risk analysis is a thing), I will always have to watch what I eat (sure, covid has no impact on this but being diabetic sucks in some ways), I will forever be fighting for inclusion or will just have to drop participation, and you will never understand why my soul aches.

I'm tired

Tuesday, June 6, 2023

Call Me (Parody of "Hold Me" by Savage Garden)

Parody of "Hold Me" by Savage Garden

Hey yeah
If we can't find our way out of these problems
Then maybe we don't need this
When we see some risk
Normally we'd take on some precautions
Decided not with COVID

I might need you to call me tonight
I might need you to say it's alright
I might need you to make the first stand
'Cos tonight I'm finding it hard to be your friend

Call me tonight
Say it's alright

Hey yeah
More than angry words you hate precautions
I hear you so loud
Well I wanna scream
Cause long covid has caused so much disabling

It's hard to comprehend

So tell me isn't healthiness
Worth more than not wearing a mask?
I'm willing to just walk away
Though it would break my heart

I've never been the praying kind
But lately I've been down upon my knees
Not looking for a miracle
Just a reason to believe

I might need you to call me tonight
I might need you to say it's alright
I might need you to make the first stand
Because tonight I'm finding it hard to be your friend

Do you remember not long ago
We used say "together we can"
Boy things have changed now
You-say I don't live I exist
Just need to move on with our lives
Without fear
That's why the spread continues

Hey
If we can't find our way out of these problems
Then maybe we don't need this
When we see some risk
Normally we'd take on some precautions
Decided not with COVID
I might need you to call me tonight
I might need you to say it's alright
I might need you to make the first stand
Because tonight I'm finding it hard to be your friend
Hold me tonight
I might need you to call it's alright
I might need you to make the first stand
Because tonight I'm finding it hard to be your friend
Hold me tonight
Say it's alright
I might need you to call the first stand
Because tonight I'm finding it hard to be your friend
Call  me tonight
Say it's alright
Ooooh oohhhh
Call  me tonight
Say it's alright
Ooooh Ooohhhh

Sunday, December 25, 2022

JJ Abrams' Magic Boxes (made of ticky tacky)

(to the tune of Little Boxes)

Magic boxes in the story
Magic boxes made of mystery
Magic boxes in the story
Magic boxes all the same

There's a time one and a ghost one
and a search one and a conspiracy
and they're all completely empty
and they all serve just the same

And the people watching tv shows
all expect some answers
and they're all so disappointed
cause they all end just the same.

And the JJ yeah the Abrams
never answers any questions
cause they're all completely empty
and they all come out the same.

And they move on to the next one
and find out there's something else new
that they have to figure out now
that is a complete mystery

and the mystery never gets results
and it keeps on being unsolved
or just goes away, unresolved at all
cause they come out all the same

and a new box comes along now
and it's all so mysterious
it's a box that's completely empty
which is just so completely lame

There's a time one and a ghost one
and a search one and a conspiracy
and they're all completely empty
and they all serve just the same