Sunday, December 13, 2020

Say Something, I'm Giving Up on You

I don't know how to let you know how much your words of property being worth the same as life has damaged our relationship. 

I don't know how to get you to care about other people more than going to the grocery store right this instant.

I don't know how to get you to care the people around you that have to remain vigilant because it's life/death for themselves or members of their household.

I don't know how to get you to realize that many of your peers are remaining vigilant despite being tired and not being at risk themselves.

I don't know how to let you know that what you say now impacts how I will interact with you in 6 months and that I am considering walking away from various communities, including those I have been a part of for just about all my life.

I don't know how to express the sorrow I feel having not believed in personal responsibility prior to this year and seeing now that I still managed to believe in it more than I should have.

I don't know how to say that I'm struggling not to give up right now and need someone to say something again because it's been a minute and I'm just so tired and so done.

Saturday, November 28, 2020

Shopping For Gifts Locally

Shopping locally is the best!  Please consider purchasing your gifts locally.  Here's a short list for the Boston area (and some that are a little beyond) (let me know if you have additional ideas and I'll add here).

Sunday, June 28, 2020

Why Re-opening Now Is So Wrong

The country has been in the process of re-opening for a month now and you might have a variety of thoughts on it ranging the gambit...

  • It's right to re-open fully because 
    • it's a hoax
    • it only effects the old so they can shelter in place while the rest of us enjoy our lives
    • "there are worse things than dying" (Texas Lt Gov)
  • It's right to re-open a little because 
    • I want to support my local businesses and buy things from them.
    • it's safe enough for us to do a little as long as we're cautious
    • we should find the happy medium between lockdown and completely open
  • It's wrong to re-open because
    • we're not ready yet and we're going to see cases spike
    • we're putting people at risk by re-opening too soon
    • we should be prioritizing essential services as we re-open rather than the cosmetic 

I would argue that it's absolutely the wrong time to re-open but it's far worse than what is indicated as reasons above.  So, first, there's the obvious things that are wrong with re-opening:

If people are following the restrictions, starting to re-open increases the risk that those people are taking.  The whole point is for people to engage in riskier behavior in an effort to get the free market going again.  Let me repeat that, the WHOLE point of re-opening is for people to engage in riskier behavior in an effort to get the free market going again.  The point is not that it's safe to engage in this behavior or to avoid economic disaster... we'll return to that second point later.

That said, people already were not taking the situation as seriously as they should have for quite a long time, if ever.  By starting to re-open, many are taking the government's actions as indicating that it's safe now, so they are relaxing their adherence to the rules as well.  Which means that people are going to start engaging in much more risky behavior.  Even if we were ready for the types of activities as the government is suggesting, the people engaging in riskier behavior are going to engage in, well, riskier behavior.  And in this scenario, what others do VERY MUCH impacts everybody else.  If someone else gets sick because they had a party, and then they go grocery shopping and touch something and put it back on the shelf, guess what happens?  And that's just touching something, it gets worse if they're not wearing a mask at the grocery story or going to a restaurant (where, obviously, they wouldn't be wearing a mask).

And with all this risky behavior, we're going to increase the risk by increasing the population that is getting sick.  The more people get sick, the higher the risk factor becomes.

Ok, let's move off the whole people being risky thing.

Next up, we're essentially forcing people to work.  There's the obvious where people who have been out of work because their business was closed due to COVID-19, either have to work or be kicked off unemployment.  So... essentially, we're saying that the economy is more important than people's lives.  

Businesses are facing a similar situation where they need to open up or risk losing more money.  It's hard to say "it's not safe so I'm going to risk my business based on the potential that it could do harm to the community."  I get that.  And your landlord or debt-holders are unlikely to agree to postpone payments or forgive payments if the government isn't forcing you to not provide your full services.  I'm SO thankful that the business I have responsibility for is so small and has no debt and no landlord.  I don't have to make this decision.  I don't know what I would do.  Worse yet, as a business owner/manager, if I were to follow the ideals of not taking the risk, if I were to shut down, I would be  entering the same job market and problems that all other workers are facing in the above paragraph.  

But this where it becomes far FAR worse than it at first seems.  This is not just simply a fight to get the economy moving again, because the federal government could provide aid to keep people going through this all.  This is a fight over whether we should let the government do its job.  As long as we say "oh, it's fine for you to open your business" and "it's fine for people to go back to work" we don't have to tackle the question of "what else can we do?"  We don't have to say "should we help people more than we have been?"  We don't have to say "we can get through this, together" anymore.  

And the federal government CAN help us get through this.  We borrow money all the time for wars.  We borrow money all the time to pay for tax cuts for the wealthy.  We borrow money to pay for tax cuts for big business (including banks... yes, banks and Wall Street are another form of business and we've bailed them out recently).  We could come together and provide basic income, temporarily, to all individuals (or limit it to those who did not make over a certain amount last year, through wages or otherwise).  We could come together and provide programs that would help support businesses in this time of need.  We could come together and decide that our economy AND our people are important to us and we should support both, because we can support both.  We could come together.  But as long as we say "we don't need to do this thing, everything's fine," we won't....

oh, and the further complication is that local governments and state governments are re-opening because they too need support.  Many are not able to run up the debt that the federal government can and therefore, without the support being provided by the federal government, cannot maintain the support they need to provide to their citizens.  

Stay safe.  Stay sane.  Stay informed.  Stay companionate.

Monday, March 2, 2020

And then there were 4...

Buttigieg, Klobuchar and Steyer all dropped out in the last 2 days (well, Klobuchar's plan to drop out is announced but not yet actually completed).  With that in mind, it's time to update the summary of Democratic "contestants" as Bloomberg called the stage:

Before we begin, yes, there are actually 5 Democrats still running, but one of them is polling between 0 and 2% so I'm going to ignore her for the sake of this discussion, sorry Gabbard fans.

Biden: If you're one of those people who thinks that the moderates will overcome Trump and that people who are disgusted with Trump won't come out to vote for a progressive, Biden's the one for you.  He's been running for President for almost as long as I've been alive.  He's made a big deal of having worked with Republicans and hasn't ruled out having a Republican as a VP running mate.  By the way, if you want to consider how well it'll go "working with Republicans", look at who we have leading the Senate, look at the bills the House has passed and where they are (stuck on McConnell's desk going nowhere) and get back to me when they start getting passed.... or when a Democratic President's Supreme Court nominee gets brought up for debate in the Senate (because that still won't happen even if the nominee is announced the year after the President is sworn in, if McConnell has his way).

Bloomberg: If you're reading this and you're thinking of voting for Bloomberg in the primary... I don't know what to say.  I guess I'll point out that he's a Republican who implemented a racist policing policy and only when he decided to run for the Democratic nomination did he begin to walk back that policy, that having walked it back a little he then lied during the debates and suggested that he had learned about the issues the policy was having and had decided on his own to change things (when in fact it was a court order due to a lawsuit), that he has spent tons of money getting Republicans into office, that he has been a part of the keep-women-quiet-through-NDAs culture and only when beaten over the head with it did he start to change the tune.... Putting it simply, his tagline should be "Bloomberg: The Other White Billionaire Racist with Sexual Skeletons in his Closet"

Sanders: His ending of the the last debate was spot on.  He's not as left as you may think.  He doesn't want to nationalize everything, just healthcare and prisons.  He wants to make college affordable, sure, but he's not trying to take over the college system.  He wants to reduce our footprint overseas.  He's also exciting to the younger crowd and the more liberal end of the Democratic base than Biden.  We need to excite the base and get out the vote this year!  There's no chance of winning over Trump supporters but there is a chance of people being excited enough about a candidate to come out to vote when they wouldn't otherwise.

Warren: Similar to Sanders, she's not as far left as you may think.  She and Sanders are pretty close in terms of the end-goal but she has plans to transition us to get there.  She's also against needless wars but hasn't really come out as strongly against overseas interventions as Sanders has.  Another similarity with Sanders?  She appears to have relatively broad support among the Democratic coalition that we need to excite and get to the polls.

It goes without saying, but I'll say it anyway... I would urge you to vote for Warren or Sanders (in that order).  Massachusetts' Secretary of State expects a higher-than-usual turnout tomorrow and I'm hoping that's true for all the Super Tuesday states... and that we paint the town Progressive as the polls suggest we might in most of them.

Thursday, February 20, 2020

Quick take on the 19-Feb-2020 Dem Presidential Debate

Quick rundown of the candidates' debate performance last night: 
 
  • Warren: Comes out of the box with a piledriver on Bloomberg. Later, "you get a punch, and you get a punch, and you get a punch..." to all her stage-mates... but never really takes her eye completely off her stage-neighbor, Bloomberg, and continues to pound away at him furiously. If you thought she had stopped being a fighter, you thought wrong.
  • Sanders: Same message as ever.  Was called a millionaire socialist with 3 houses as an insult and spent time explaining it, which was unfortunate but minor in the grand scheme of things. Sanders didn't go into the debate needing a big win though since he is in the lead and has momentum... all signs point to nothing having changed.
  • Biden: Had a surprisingly strong night given his performances for the last few months.  Not sure it was enough to salvage his campaign though.
  • Buttigieg: While everyone else starts by beating on Bloomberg, Buttigieg begins an attack on Bloomberg but before he actually lands the punch pivots and attacks Sanders. 
  • Klobuchar: Came out swinging against Bloomberg but then spent the rest of the debate driving back and forth between Mediocreville and Disappointing City... speaking of which...
  • Klobuchar & Buttigieg: Proved they're totally fine bickering and slamming each other repeatedly to the mat.  It's almost like they don't like each other much.
  • Bloomberg: Horrible, just horrible.  Showed that he's Trump with a "(D)" next to his name.
  • Steyer: Tried to say he was the good kind of billionaire... wait, no, he didn't make it into the debate.
  • Gabbard: Sir Also-Not-Appearing-On-This-Stage.

Sunday, February 16, 2020

Random Ranting On Ridiculousness Recently Received on 16-Feb-2020

This started off as a small FB post but evolved into something just slightly too long for that so...

I heard someone on the news just say that they believe it is God's will that Trump be President because if it weren't, God wouldn't have allowed it to happen... fair enough, then it was also God's will that Obama be President for 8 years, right? Also, does God's will in this way apply only to Presidents or is it all things? If it's all things, then there's no point to you discussing any of this since it's clearly God's will that the viewers of this MSNBC show and you will forever disagree, most likely on everything that comes out of your mouth. Let's say it's only Presidential elections that God intervenes in. How much do you want to bet that it won't be God's will when a Democrat comes to office and can we forego however long that takes and have you just hand over that bet money to me now?

Moments later in the discussion, this same person said that Trump was in office to allow the country a chance to "recover"... ok, recover from what? If it's God's will that whoever becomes President becomes President, was it not, therefore, God's will that Obama be President and was it not also God's will that everything that transpired did transpire in those 8 years? And in what way are we "recovering" right now? Were we not deporting enough people when Obama ramped up deportations during his Presidency? Did we not have enough support for racism and bigotry? Perhaps Obama wasn't vindictive enough and wasn't political enough when giving speeches in the well of the House or when giving press conferences?

Minutes after these points, the same person then said that there was an election and this was therefore the will of the people.  I'm SO tired of hearing that elections have consequences.  Where was this explanation coming from the Right in 2009 when the Tea Party was sprouting into existence and rallying against Obama, literally hanging effigies of him?  How does this defense work in tandem with the suggestion in 2012 and 2016 that the Right must "take back" the country?  "Take back" from who?  Also, not for nothing, but will of the people?  How is it the will of the people when "the people" vote for one person by 48.2 to 46.1 and the person with 46.1 percent becomes the President?  You can't say "the people" voted for this President when it was a minority of the "the people" who made the decision.

Ok, rant almost over, I promise.

The news piece was actually about how Trump is acting like an authoritarian leader in the way that he governs and the way that he behaves toward the news.  This is absolutely on-point.  The correspondents were pointing out that the news teams have an obligation to not just give both sides' talking points, not just sometimes say when one side is lying, but to tell the story so it is clear as day what is happening.  I'm not entirely sure how that was spun into "this President was elected by the people and it was God's will that that happen so suck it."  Really, I feel there's no answer that can be legitimately provided in response to this so the only answer to be provided is one that changes the narrative ... even if it is to something blatantly false like that the news media only lies about Trump (the first response provided in the discussion) or an explanation of "well, he's in office so it must be God's will" when asked "President Trump has said that it's God's will that he be President, do you agree".

Saturday, February 8, 2020

New Hampshire, here are your choices on Tuesday, 11-Feb-2020

All of your options boiled down to their most basic premise for why you should vote for them:


  • Michael Bennett - Not really sure why he's still here. He hasn't been on the debate stage lately and is a rather bland white straight male. Doesn't bring much to the table that other, more popular candidates don't.
  • Joe Biden - I'm the only one that's electable, though I can't excite enough people in Iowa to come in closer than 4th and the polls indicate that EVERY Democrat would beat Trump (note: polls also indicated Clinton would win... additional note: Clinton at least had people excited because she'd be the first woman President, what exactly excites people about Biden? Right, moving on). (oh, and I was VP for / and am friends with Obama, you remember him right?) (oh, and please forget all the things I've done as Senator or anything that you disagree with regarding Obama's presidency)
  • Cory Booker - No longer running, so... yeah
  • Mosemarie Boyd - Never actually heard of this person so if you want to throw out your vote, I guess this is as good an option as any... but you're New Hampshire and care about your role as a taste-tester, right?
  • Steve Bullock - No longer running so... yeah
  • Pete Buttigieg - I'm not conservative like Biden and I'm not liberal like Warren/Sanders... oh, and I don't get my campaign money by being the former Mayor of a relatively small city (I get my campaign money from my friends from my earlier job at a private equity company)
  • Julian Castor - No longer running... but has endorsed Warren, so if you wanted to vote for him, consider voting for her.
  • Roque De La Fuente III- Again, never actually heard of this person so if you want to throw out your vote blah blah. but you're New Hampshire and care about ... moving right along
  • John Delaney - No longer running so... yeah
  • Jason E Dunlap - Again, never heard of, well, you know the drill
  • Michael Ellinger - Never heard, oh come on, how many of these people are there?
  • Tulsi Gabbard - I swear I'm not the villain of this story...
  • Ben Gleiberman - Getting tired of saying that I've never heard of this person, but yeah, he's another one that's not running nationally...
  • Mark Stewart Greenstein - Maybe that's all I should say going forward... "not running nationally, are you a taste tester or not?"
  • Kamala Harris - Sadly, she is no longer running... if she were, though, she's a prosecutor and will ... would have prosecuted the case against Trump.
  • Henry Hewes - Not running nationally, are you a taste tester or not?
  • Amy Klobuchar - Like Buttigieg, I'm not conservative or liberal... unlike Buttigieg, I have experience and am a woman and have won in an election that's larger than one city.
  • Tom Koos - Not running nationally, are you a taste tester or not?
  • Lorenz Kraus - Not running nationally, are you a taste tester or not?
  • Rita Krichevsky - Not running nationally, are you a taste tester or not?
  • Raymond Moroz - Not running nationally, are you a... oh come on, really, for taste testers for the nation you're tasting a lot of things not being considered anywhere else.
  • Deval Patrick - I'm from a semi-liberal state and am friends with Obama... you remember Obama right?
  • Bernie Sanders - I'm so damn liberal that I wrote the damn bill. Seriously though, Sanders is pretty damn liberal... he's also an isolationist (up to you whether that's good or bad)
  • Joe Sestak - No longer running...
  • Sam Sloan - Not running nationand I give up
  • Tom Steyer - I'm a real billionaire, unlike Trump... so I can bring it to him in a way that no one else can... except maybe Bloomberg, but he's not on the ballet so voting for me is kind of like voting for him... except it's not because I'm much more liberal and not as tainted by time being NYC Mayor...
  • David John Thistle - A thistle in the side of anybody thinking that you should be helping widdle down the field for the rest of the nation...
  • Thomas Torgesan - Also not running nationally
  • Elizabeth Warren - Finally got to the woman with a plan... a liberal plan...
  • Robert Carr Wells Jr - Also not running nationally
  • Marianne Williamson - No longer running
  • Andrew Yang - We need a universal basic income so that people have enough money that they can spend some of their money on non-essential things ... you know, because then people can spend money on political campaigns.